How can you choose the perfect gift for anyone regardless of age, more bonuses? It has always been my belief that the basic principle for finding the best gifts is unchanged: consideration of the person receiving it first. The gift the gift itself is second.
The basic premise is in essence, that the idea of a perfect present isn’t something that is universally applicable. That’s why there’s not”the “perfect present” for anyone that matches a particular profile, demographic, or description. Any gift that’s considered the best is just as individual as the person who received it and the function of the gift.
Consider some Christmas presents you can gift your loved ones. You’ll likely browse through the gift registry website that provides Christmas gift ideas and gifts to spouses. This process of reducing the number of gift ideas into 2 or 3 is the premise of this method. After that, you buy what you believe will make the best gift for your recipient. This method does limit your choices. It is for instance, it restricts the possibilities of your search to the season or holidays. Of course, you’d like to present the most perfect gift and not just because of the holiday but despite the holiday.
An Easier Way
Is it wrong to search for the best gift ideas such a way? Yes, of course not. However, is there an easier, more smooth way of to show the thought-provoking analysis you’ve put into your gift giving act? It is.
A present can only be perfect if the present serves the purpose it was intended for. This is a step more. There are different reasons for people to use for the gifts that they give. Most of those purposes have personal motives. The majority of people buy gifts to satisfy someone else’s desires. However, the most thoughtful elegant, noble, and unique gift you can give is one that serves the desires of the receiver.
Everyone has their wants and desires, but at time of need the gifts that fulfill a need that make a difference and are worth more (and will often be remembered with fondness). Everyone can survive without what they need. Imagine you are the receiver of a unique gift. Can you say to the person who gave it to you “You really love me and care for me; you were there in my need”?
If you decide to give a gift, consider the person’s needs first. It will elevate your present above the usual shallow and meaningless giving. So, if you intend to practice a more loving and genuinely human method to give the most meaningful gift for your beloved ones, try the needs-based approach.
The Liberating Formula
To make it easier for you I’ve combined it into a form of fill-in the-blanks-formula which reads like:
“My gift’s receiver needs help with _____________________. I can help this person by gifting him or her an _____________. “
This formula is very liberating as follows:
It is now possible to give gifts without any restrictions that come with the Christmas season.
It is possible to pick among a myriad of gift options which do not depend on the popularity of the item.
Gives you the opportunity for you to create a deeper, more personal and useful present idea
gives you ideas for gifts that meet an need (i.e. that of the recipient), for which they are likely to be grateful;
You can avoid the tedious long, lengthy and often difficult task of trying to come up with the ideal present ideas since you already know the exact thing you’d like to gift.
This can help you let go of the notion that gifts can be either physically or materially tangible. The fact that some gifts are not tangible. The most valuable gifts are typically intangible, like the present the time, encouragement or gratitude through an appreciation note.